Tuesday, April 13, 2010

errronee in a relationnshipp yee yee

I used to be a "changer." I would date someone,
thinking I was going to be the person who would help
them see the light and mend whatever ways
I was sure needed mending.
Instead of showing them the way to a great relationship,
I just ended up frustrated.
It turned out that changing someone was very difficult.

There are several reasons you shouldn't try to change someone.
The best choice is to try to deal with an imperfection
you see in your mate or try to ride it out
until they decide to change themselves.
If something serious needs to be changed,
and the person doesn't decide to change on their own,
then you should take off.
Also, don't try to change someone too early in a relationship.
If it's even possible to change someone,
you need to earn that right.

Here are five reasons not to try to change someone:

1. People Hate Being Told They Need to Change
Who likes being nagged or hearing constant suggestions for
change?
Being too vocal about changing someone
will most likely cause that person to rebel.
Just step back and realize that if someone is behaving
or living their lives in a way that annoys you,
it's not going to work out whether you try to change them or not.

2. Your Differences Should Complement Each Other
Because I don't like planning,
and do things by the seat of my pants,
I annoy girls who are more "together" in their thinking.
A girl who is more organized may try to change me.
But if our personalities complement one another,
then my seat-of-the-pants nature makes her laugh
and keeps her loose.
Her organized thinking helps keep me structured.
We may think differently,
but there's really no need to try to change each other.
The differences actually turn into positives.

3. You Look Like You Don't Love Them
If you're trying to change someone,
you are indirectly telling them
that you don't love them the way they are.
You are in love with the person
you are trying to turn them into.

4. It's a Waste of Time
Suppose you spend a year or two
with someone thinking they will change.
Finally, this stress on the relationship explodes
because you've been trying to change them the whole time.
So, the relationship ends,
and you have wasted a year or two in frustration.
Somewhere along the way, you just have to tell yourself that
if the person doesn't change something on their own,
it's not your responsibility (or right) to change them.
Sometimes — not always —
when you do get out of the relationship,
they change on their own and come back
because they didn't want to lose you.

5. They'll Change for You When They're Ready
There are very few people in my life who I will allow to change me:
my close friends and family.
They've earned the right to ask me to change
or to tell me that I am doing something the wrong way.
After I've dated a girl for a long time,
she'll have that right too.
So, if she wants to change anything,
she needs to wait until she's earned the right to suggest change

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Never Give Up On Love - Bobby Tinsley

I use to wake up in the morning and I’d hear your name
Had you picture in my mind I didn’t need a frame
Wrote you letters that I couldn’t see you eye to eye
Hope the letters could express the way I felt inside

Sometimes, the ones that you love
Do not feel the same way that you do and it hurts you bad
Sometimes your heart’ll get weak
But you can never give up on love

I’ll never give up on love
Cause I know it's true,
I know its real because I know the way I felt for you
And In the middle of the night
When I hear your name,
I say a prayer for you
And hope that you will do the same

I’ll never give up on love
Cause that God aserned
To find love when he made a prayer we both deserve
And he’s the father that we’ll never see on earth
So I’ll never give up on love

Things are different now without you always on my mind
Definitely better, but I must admit it hurts sometimes
What we had meant so much to me, jus to let you know,
But what’s done is done and I guess it’s time to let you go

Sometimes, the ones that you love
They don’t feel the same way that you do and it hurts you
Sometimes your heart’ll get weak
But you can never give up on love

I’ll never give up on love
Cause I know it's true,
I know its real because I know the way I felt for you
And In the middle of the night
When I hear your name,
I say a prayer for you
And hope that you will do the same

I’ll never give up on love
Cause that God aserned
To find love when he made a prayer we both deserve
And he’s the father that we’ll never see on earth
So I’ll never give up on love

Repeat: never give up on love

I’ll never give up on love
Cause I know it's true,
I know its real because I know the way I felt for you
And In the middle of the night
When I hear your name,
I say a prayer for you
And hope that you will do the same

I’ll never give up on love
Cause that God aserned
To find love when he made a prayer we both deserve
And he’s the father that we’ll never see on earth
So I’ll never give up on love

Monday, March 15, 2010

FML

I'm fat FML! NEED TO REALLY GO WORK OUT NOW! :@:@

Monday, March 1, 2010

Totally not my day.

I do not like it when people touch my things.
I do not like it when people touch my things when I told them not to.
I do not like it when people call me fat.
I can get mean, upset and I will cry.!
It is not my fault so shut the fuck up.
I will tell you straight in your face to shut the fuck up.
I know I'm super insecure about myself.
I have a major low self esteem.
Too bad that's just who I am.
Don't like it?
Fuck off.
I do not like it when people don't respect what I want.
Don't respect me then get lost.
I do not like it when you don't ask me to use my things!
Then you use the wrong thing for the wrong thing that your doing!
My personal property!! LEAVE IT ALONE.
Get it? It's mine! please back off.
I obviously respect you. Please do the same back.
I understand you have other issues but please don't put your anger on me!
I didn't do anything.
Once again, I do not like it when people touch my things without asking!
This is who I am.
If you don't like me for who I am, then get out of my life.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Time to update

Hey I haven't been on here lately! I wonder why... hmm?? I wouldn't know my self. So right now im in psychology doing these quizes (sp?). Okay you know what nevermind I'm tired I don't even want to think/type. On second thought.. I'll tell what happened this weekend the most exciting thing that happened this week.. WE GOT A NEW CAR OH MY GOSh ..... The 2010 honda accord coupe <3 black on black but fudge I forgot to ask about tinted windows from the begining so we could've got it for free but anyways its fully loaded <3 but too bad no back up sensor. but this will motivate me much more to get my freaken "L" :( then eventually I can drive it ! !! =D okay ya thats the exciting thing and on top of that when the car comes in my mom isnt going to let my sister drive it cause she's goign to let her drive the SUV until her driving is good enough !! anyways I shouold get back to my class work noww TOODDDLLLEEESS !! <3

Friday, February 5, 2010

What I found out today.

You know those people who wear socks with sandals...?
Well I found out something pretty interesting today, read this.
"reason why they wear Socks with Sandals is because they don't want you too see their nasty nails & feet!"

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Why Am I Not On...

The reason why I haven't been on lately is because Ive been drown in so much stress.! including my SS exam :*( but I will try to update asap.! because i have lots to type toodles for now.

Thursday, January 21, 2010

I just need to vent.

So it's currently 11:05 I'm so dumb cramming all my homework til the last minute. Oh my god so basically I'm doing my homework right now My mom yells my name out "Bonnie! bonnie!" I continue to ignore her she yells again "Bonnie!! Bonnie!!" I go Oh my god I'm doing my homework !!!! How can I sleep if I'm doing my homework. Okay like seriously All she wants me to do is sleep Oh aren't you going sleep for school tmr well fuck first of all I can't sleep if I haven't finished my homework second of all how can I go to school when I haven't even finish my homework yet? and also no late hand ins because tomorrow is the last day of the semester!!! She wantsme to succeed in school just by sleeping?! are you fucken kidding me?!?!?!? People need to study do there homework what not in order to succeed in school! FUCK GOD! I need to punch someone in the face thank you very much /vent.

thursday! January 21, 2010

It's thursday !!!! Only two days of school left that's including today, then it is the weekend finally! I only have like two classes to go today. While I'm typing this is one of my classes that I'm supposed to attend today. Fun Fun Fun!! Then it's lunch then I have One more class then I'm off ! Cause I'm just so great like that ! Oh and today I remembered to bring my pencils for domie! but I didn't get a chance to see her yet! =( After school today I would like to stay for the provincials prep but I don't have a last block nor do I want to stay and wait until the end of school time. !!! So that like just kinda sucks but there is always monday and tuesday of next week fun. Okay well I have to get back to working on my thoughtful thursday. I will explain what that means when I get home! toodles for now.! <3

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Canada's past?... WHO CARES?!

I care! I am currently doing my Prime minister project for social studies. It's pretty hard cause since I have to find ALL the information in the textbook. I have until the end of this week, which is Friday to finish this. Also it cannot be on computer it must be all by hand. Good Luck to me!

My very first post...

In my life
Figured out this by my fellow classmate...
Domie.